Lend money or not?

A friend sms me this afternoon .
" I would like to ask a favor, do you lend $300 since my friend need it"
Excuse me, is your friend my friend even though I have never ever
seen your friend ??
Don`t you think this is super crazy and funny favor to ask me?
$300 is not big money ,I am talking abt what he asked me.


Actually I was disappointed with this friend because in Japan ,if a friend ask to lend money from friend,it implies that either He /She doesnt care if our relationship is going to spoil" OR if he/she is really really suffer his/her life . So that ,I thought that he doesnt think our relationship is important.
For me ,to ask to lend money is risky ,also don`t want to do it .If I need money ,I ask my family first.

Well, this is not first time that my friend asked for money.
Since I came to Singapore, some guys friends asked me and I lent money 2 times to my ex-bf and ex-ex bf.
They promised me that he would pay me back, but never paid me back.
BF is a special for me ,so that if he needs money,
I may help him...but basically I don`t want to borrow and lend money.


I talked to K since I was comfused again..
He gave me advise that not to lend money unless he is my good friend.
He told me his experience and guided me...so I finally replied back to my
friend that I hardly help his friend.
Because actually I also dont have enough money now since I need make payment rent of housing,internet, mobile phone, medication, and ticket to Japan ( terribly expensive!)
I also want to ask to lend money...hahaha
I also have headache on daily expense.
After replied back to him ,but then,,again this friend still begged me to lend money...headache. How?
Do you think I am cold person???

" What a hell! We got an another sucks mail from customer..."
When I came to my desk in this morning, my colleague told me with long face..
That is just beginning of beginning ..
Customer complaint that sea shipment from Singapore to Jakarta ,ETA was 23rd/Nov,and
supposed to be collected cargos in a few dayz after reaching Jakarta port,however, the vessel was not direct one for Jakarta, it goes to Jakarta via Malaysia.
So that, took 2 more dayz than WE expected ,and then customer`s production line would stop if they are unable to get cargo today...

so,,,who did know that this vessel goes to Malaysia ??
Nobody knew it except consolidor...since it was urgent customer request shipment, of course they should get angry with us.

What is problems? why it happened?
1st, My boss and I thought we only have direct vessel for Jakarta, we did not check where it s going. And I just asked a person-in-charge of shipment to arrange shipment.
2nd, the contract (LC) is basically shipping by SEA unless they are required to ship by Air.
If it`s super urgent, must request AIR shipment.

Anyway, they needed to collect cargos at Jakarta port urgently, we tried our best to negotiate to unload cargos faster with consolidar.
2pm, my colleague and I went to consolidor office to have meeting and asked for their help .
Talked to a manager ,and we finally could get solution.
After meeting, my colleague told me that thinking solution at desk sometimes wasted time, we should take action like seeing particuler person to solve it immediately.
Indeed...

My colleague and I were so tired today ..He just now called me and said that he got sick today since he always has lots of assighments ..poor things...
Tomorrow is our stock-taking day..whole day stay in our warehouse to check stocks.
should be tiring....
Headache ..because have to think so much...plus using English whole day makes me crazy...if not using English in business, I wont be so tired like this.. On the other hands, communication is the most important..I wont give up ...never..

Another stressful Monday and month end.. you know have to settle down accounting matters..issue credit note and debit note...checking inventry stock..time flies so fast then it also help me to forget to think of u...missing missing missing you..
yeah so tired today that s why I knocked off earlier today, my boss also went off office earlier luckily,nobody stopped me ...quickly tidied up my stuff and wrote a few e-mails to suppliers and customers ...hey,Carol shall we go for nice dinner??, you know what ? yeah today is PAYDAY!
We were puzzling wat we gonna eat and where to go ...Junction 8? Orchard RD? Hougang ?took the bus heading for.....Bishan ..(AGAIN??)
Finally we reached Bishan Junction 8 as usual...dropped by restaurant to check out menu ..asked my stomach that what you prefer to eat..cant decide to stop ...
dinner was nice and we were so full ...nid to walk around for window shopping.
I can not buy anything now coz I have save money to buy TV and DVD player and trip ...she also wants to save money for travelling to China..
Errrr....excited that another weekends is coming soon......missing you badly ..

BOring Boring really boring ...
sighs sighs sighs sighs boring fucking boring...
thinking of buying LCD TV then I wont be bored not so much ,right?
why it s so boring? I need someone who always be with me ,just relaxing together,
just watching TV together, just having a cup of tea ...just doze off and wake up together.
I want bring tea next morning and wake him up...prepare for his breakfast and
walking outside together taking my hands....
this is what I need ...is it high expectation? no rite?
or is this boring for you to be with me???
I am so scared that you are leaving from me again ,again nah...
so ...afraid to step into relationship ....dont know wat u tink ..dont know wat i think.
Can I ask you to go beach next either Sat or Sunday? I dont know how I can hugz you..so sorry..
I am confused lei...coz dnt wan repeat same bad experience ,coz want to be with you...
Am I boring person?
Am I not the person who makes you happy?
I just want to be with you forever ...Do you like tat?